Do you feel like your spouse won’t change—no matter what you try?Have you been tolerating non-improvement and calling it “keeping the peace”? In this episode, Greg & Rachel Denning share a practical blueprint for creating real change in marriage—without nagging, power struggles, or giving ultimatums. You’ll learn how to earn influence (instead of demanding it), build psychological safety so growth is possible, and use pattern interrupts to break the same old fights. They unpack why couples stall out—no shared vision, unresolved wounds, holes in the relationship “bucket,” and mixed signals that make one spouse armor up. You’ll get specific tools to create safety, raise standards, and stop tolerating non-improvement—so your marriage actually gets better month by month. What we cover: - Why “it’s okay to be wounded—but not to stay wounded.” - How to earn your spouse’s attention & respect (and keep it). - Pattern interrupts that disarm conflict and reset connection. - The Bucket Test: plug the leaks killing motivation & desire. - Strategic praise (what to amplify so it multiplies). - The Shared Vision your marriage needs to stay motivated. - When one spouse levels up—and what to do if the other resists. - Tough talks done right: letters, timing, tone, and follow-through. Bottom line: In life, you get what you tolerate. Don’t accept non-improvement. Use these tools to create safety, raise the standard, and build a marriage where both partners keep growing. 📌 Key Takeaways ✅ Influence is earned, not demanded—become the person your spouse wants to follow. ✅ Safety first: no one grows while armored—reduce criticism, increase sincere praise. ✅ Pattern interrupts break the drama triangle and open space for change. ✅ Shared vision fuels motivation; without it, marriages drift. ✅ Stop tolerating non-improvement—lovingly raise the standard and keep it. Memorable Quotes ＜#＞ 🗣 “Do not accept non-improvement. In life, you get what you tolerate.” ＜#＞ 🗣 “It’s **okay to be wounded—**it’s not okay to stay wounded.” ＜#＞ 🗣 “Earn the right to be heard; influence follows respect.” ＜#＞ 🗣 “Our most difficult conversations led to our biggest positive changes.” ＜#＞ 🗣 “Whatever you’re doing isn’t working? Do the opposite—create a pattern interrupt.” Chapters: 02:24 Creating a Safe Space for Your Spouse to Improve 04:39 Using Pattern Interrupters to Break Negative Cycles 07:49 The Power of Reciprocity in Influencing Your Spouse 11:23 The Importance of Self-Improvement in Helping Your Spouse 17:04 The Power of Daily Affection and Verbal Expressions of Love 18:27 The Significance of a Shared Vision 22:45 The Role of Difficult Conversations in Positive Change 27:43 Embracing Difficult Conversations for Personal Growth RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. • How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids (https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/) - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids) • Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/ambitious-well-read-mom-booklist) • Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist) • Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ (https://instagram.com/worldschoolfamily) or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ (https://instagram.com/greg.denning) • Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method (https://parenting.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/?utm_source=ActiveCampaign&utm_medium=email&utm_content=Enrollment%20open%21%21%20%F0%9F%8E%89%F0%9F%8E%89%F0%9F%8E%89&utm_campaign=Parenting%20launch%20Enrollment%20Open%20%28Email%20%235%29) class! • Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/family-systems-charts) • Join the Do More With Less Stress Workshop Series (https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/pages/do-more-with-less-stress-workshop-series-for-busy-overwhelmed-moms) for busy moms • Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge  (https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men) • JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE (https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/) !  • Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe (https://formidablefamilyman.com/) • Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ (https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort) in Portugal • Read our reviews here: https://podcast.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/reviews/ 

Discipline isn’t just about willpower—it’s about building systems that keep you accountable. Greg Denning (father of 7 and family coach) shares how creating your own consequences can train real self-discipline and self-control that last. With Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. ✨ Watch more in our Raising Resilient Kids playlist ➡ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUcUZtk-UcFGLbffXOZOD54QSZfNxZ5-9 Watch the full episode here: https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL336 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #RaisingResilientKids #FatherhoodTips #MindsetForMen #DadLife #FamilyLeadership #DisciplineTips #ParentingForDads #SelfControl #GregDenning

Hookup culture is everywhere—but is it what your kids really want? Greg Denning (father of 7 and family coach) shares how dads can teach teens second- and third-level thinking so they see through empty promises and build lasting values. With Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. ✨ Watch now in the Raising Resilient Kids playlist ➡ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLUcUZtk-UcFGLbffXOZOD54QSZfNxZ5-9 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #RaisingResilientKids #FatherhoodTips #ParentingForDads #DadLife #FamilyLeadership #TeachTeens #ParentingHacks #MindsetForMen #GregDenning

Chasing dopamine through endless shows, books, or entertainment can feel exciting—but is it actually meaningful? Greg Denning explains how to tell the difference. In this video, you’ll learn how to distinguish between entertainment that wastes your life and experiences that transform it. Discover how to recognize true growth, avoid the dopamine trap, and choose what really matters. with Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. Watch the full episode here: https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL334 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #ChasingDopamine #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #SelfDiscipline #LifeLessons #SuccessHabits #MindfulLiving #PurposeDrivenLife #MentalStrength #PositiveMindset #lifedesign

It’s not enough to simply write down your goals—you have to prioritize them. In this video, Greg & Rachel Denning share how to achieve your dreams without sacrificing your marriage, family, or health. For example—you may want to travel the world, build a business, or hit big milestones. But if those dreams come at the cost of your most important relationships, is it really success? The truth is, you can have both—if you put your goals in the right order. 👉 When you prioritize correctly, you’ll protect the people you love most while still creating the extraordinary life you dream of. With Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. Watch the full episode here: https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL334 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #GoalSetting #PrioritizeGoals #FamilyFirst #LifeSuccess #PersonalGrowth #MarriageAndFamily #TravelDreams #SuccessHabits #MindsetMatters #LifeClarity #achieveyourdreams

What’s the point of success if it leaves you empty, broken, and alone? Greg Denning reveals the dark side of pursuing greatness the wrong way—when fame, money, or achievements come at the cost of your health, marriage, and relationships. In this powerful video, you’ll discover: Why chasing success without balance wrecks families and futures The hidden struggles behind wealth, fame, and achievement How to build true success rooted in purpose, love, and well-being It’s time to redefine what winning really looks like. Because success without fulfillment is just failure in disguise. With Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. Watch the full episode here: https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL334 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #SuccessMindset #WorkLifeBalance #PersonalGrowth #LifeFulfillment #TrueSuccess #FamilyFirst #MindsetMatters #PurposeDrivenLife #OvercomeAddiction #HealthySuccess #inspirationdaily

If you’re chasing big goals but constantly running out of energy, this is for you. Greg Denning shares the exact morning routine he and his wife have used for decades to fuel their marriage, family, and life of adventure. In this inspiring video, you’ll learn: A simple 60–90 minute formula to sharpen mind, body, and spirit Why you must protect your energy if you want to achieve big goals How a consistent morning routine fuels clarity, discipline, and momentum Stop “limping along” without time or energy. With the right morning routine, you’ll create the vitality to actually accomplish your dreams. With Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. Watch the full episode here: https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL334 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #MorningRoutine #DailyHabits #SuccessMindset #ProductivityTips #AchieveYourGoals #MindBodySpirit #EnergyForSuccess #PersonalGrowth #DisciplineEqualsFreedom #MorningMotivation #highperformance

Think 30 minutes isn’t enough to change your life? Think again. Greg Denning reveals why a simple half-hour of real movement each day can get you in fantastic shape—no extremes required. In this motivating video, you’ll discover: Why 30 minutes of consistent exercise is more than enough to transform your health How small daily wins build momentum toward big fitness goals The mindset shift that helps you want to work out instead of dreading it Don’t underestimate what 30 minutes of focused effort can do. It’s not just maintenance—it’s the path to strength, vitality, and real progress. With Greg Denning—a formidable father of 7, seasoned world traveler, and successful entrepreneur. Watch the full episode here: https://yt.openinapp.co/EFL334 🔔 Don’t miss more parenting insights—subscribe now: https://yt.openinapp.co/GDYT www.FormidableFamilyMan.com RESOURCES: Here’s a FREE Course! https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/adventuring Greg's FREE ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist FREE Must Read Books for Resourcefulness and Preparation: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/products/digital_downloads/preparedness-booklist Follow me on Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/greg.denning/ How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids): https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com The Formidable Family Man Podcast: https://www.podpage.com/formidable-family-man/ Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/ Join the ⁠⁠Be The Formidable Family Man Masterclass and Tribe: https://formidablefamilyman.com Follow me on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/greghdenning Learn more about the upcoming 'Asset Training' in Portugal: https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/portugal-asset-training/ Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal: https://www.instagram.com/worldschoolfamilyresort/ Extraordinary Family Life Website: https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/ The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions. #FormidableFamilyMen #GregDenning #BeTheMan #ReachUpward #30MinuteWorkout #DailyHabits #FitnessMotivation #HealthTips #ConsistencyIsKey #StrongBodyStrongMind #WorkoutForBusyPeople #HealthyLifestyle #ExerciseDaily #SmallStepsBigResults #mindsetmatters

Are you worried about your kids rebelling as teenagers? Do you ever wonder if your parenting style today is planting the seeds of future rebellion—or resilience? In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning tackle the controversial connection between “restaurant parenting” and teenage rebellion. They share why forcing your children to “behave perfectly” in public often backfires, and how double standards in parenting create resentment and distance that can last for decades. Instead, they reveal a better way: building congruence, fostering autonomy, and meeting your child’s deepest needs for love, certainty, identity, and adventure. When you allow children to “act their age,” explain the why behind rules, and respect their growing independence, you prevent destructive rebellion and instead raise courageous, confident adults. This powerful conversation explores: • Why unmet needs lead to rebellion (and how to meet them early) • The difference between healthy vs. unhealthy rebellion • How giving your kids autonomy strengthens respect and influence • Why congruence between public and private parenting matters most • How to prevent resentment from turning into long-term rebellion • The secret to keeping influence with your kids as they grow into teens and adults If you want to raise teens who respect you, trust you, and stay connected—without power struggles, yelling, or forced obedience— this episode will shift the way you see rebellion forever. 📌 Key Takeaways ✅ Teenage rebellion often begins with unmet needs for love, acceptance, and autonomy. ✅ Consistency and congruence between public and private parenting builds trust. ✅ Healthy rebellion (risk-taking, questioning rules) prepares kids for adulthood. ✅ Influence with your teens is earned by respect—not forced obedience. ✅ Parenting long-term means thinking about the adults you want to raise, not just the behavior you want today. 🎙 Memorable Quotes 🗣 “If you ever try to make it a power struggle, even if you win—you lose.” 🗣 “The time to think about teenage rebellion is when your baby is born.” 🗣 “Resentment always comes from a need that’s not being met.” 🗣 “You don’t prevent rebellion by controlling kids—you prevent it by giving them autonomy.” 🗣 “Never stop earning your children’s respect. Be a respectable person.” 🎉 Enrollment is now open for our Fall 2025 Habits for a Successful Life Online Class for Teens → Learn More Here (https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/pages/habits-for-a-successful-life-online-class-for-teens) Chapters: 00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges 04:05 Understanding Teenage Rebellion 07:17 The Concept of Restaurant Parenting 11:08 Building Healthy Relationships with Teens 16:10 Creating a Healthy Environment for Choices 18:21 The Importance of Earning Respect 19:58 Understanding Teenage Rebellion 22:32 Healthy vs. Unhealthy Rebellion 25:19 Teaching Critical Thinking and Rule-Breaking 31:18 Questioning Parenting Norms RESOURCES: Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey. • How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids (https://welladjusted.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/) - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids) • Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠ (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/ambitious-well-read-mom-booklist) • Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠ (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/greg-denning-booklist) • Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ (https://instagram.com/worldschoolfamily) or ⁠@greg.denning⁠ (https://instagram.com/greg.denning) • Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method (https://parenting.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/?utm_source=ActiveCampaign&utm_medium=email&utm_content=Enrollment%20open%21%21%20%F0%9F%8E%89%F0%9F%8E%89%F0%9F%8E%89&utm_campaign=Parenting%20launch%20Enrollment%20Open%20%28Email%20%235%29) class! • Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠ (https://courses.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/courses/family-systems-charts) • Join the Do More With Less Stress Workshop Series (https://www.extraordinaryfamilylife.com/pages/do-more-with-less-stress-workshop-series-for-busy-overwhelmed-moms) for busy moms • Join Greg’s 7-Day Challenge  (https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/be-the-family-man-challenge-men) • JOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE (https://extraordinaryfl.samcart.com/products/90-day-health--fitness-challenge/) !  • Join the Formidable Famil...