Shine Wherever You Are

“Father, where shall I work today?’
And my love flowed warm and free.
Then he pointed out a tiny spot
And said, ‘Tend that for me.’
I answered quickly, ‘Oh no, not that!
Why, no one would ever see,
No matter how well my work was done.
Not that little place for me.’
And the word he spoke, it was not stern;
He answered me tenderly:
‘Ah, little one, search that heart of thine;
Art thou working for them or for me?
‘Nazareth was a little place,
And so was Galilee.”
—Meade MacGuire

To each of us is given the wonderful privilege and awesome responsibility to make a positive difference in the world.  It may be with a small child or with an entire nation, but shine we must!

Consider the wonderful Old Testament story of Esther.  Ahasuerus is seeking for a new queen.  Mordecai presents Esther and she pleases the king and is chosen as queen.  Mordecai, the Jew, refuses to bow to Haman, who then arranges a decree to kill all the Jews in the kingdom.  Mordecai and the Jews mourn and fast because of the king’s decree.  Mordecai tells Esther to go before the king to plead their cause.  To do this, she would be putting her life at risk, since it was forbidden to go before the king.  The penalty was death unless the king put forth his golden sceptre.  Mordecai then says to her, “and who knoweth whether thou art come to the kingdom for such a time as this? (Esther 4:14)  Esther determines to enter the presence of the king, even at the peril of her life. The king receives Esther and she later reveals Haman’s plot to destroy the Jews.  Ahasuerus then reverses the decree calling for the destruction of the Jews.  Consider the enormity of what she accomplished!  Surely, Esther came into the kingdom for “such a time.”  And in our sphere of influence, if we will listen and act, we will have the privilege and opportunity to be a great force for good to those within our circle of influence.  Indeed, you have come “for such a time as this.”  And there are things that you can accomplish that no one else can.

Neal A. Maxwell taught that, “though we live in a failing world, we have not been sent here to fail. Recall the new star that announced the birth at Bethlehem? It was in its precise orbit long before it so shone. We are likewise placed in human orbits to illuminate. Divine correlation functions not only in the cosmos but on this planet, too.”

If you and I are receptive and willing, we can be led to an exact place and purpose. Many times, qualified and prepared individuals have shown up in my life at the precise moment I needed them.  And likewise, it has been humbling for me to be led to help others in their moment of need, with skills and abilities that the Lord has given me.  He is perfectly aware of you and desires to bless and help you.  And He desires to use you as an instrument in His hands to bless others.   “And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose.” Romans 8:28(italics added)

So let’s follow Christ’s perfect example and “be about our Father’s business!”  And what is His business?  To comfort, inspire, strengthen and bless each one of His children.  May we become qualified instruments in His hands to assist in His great purpose!

Seeing Yourself Through Others’ Eyes

Mediocre people only think of themselves. They will not see outside of their reality, but only how things affect them.  A mediocre person wants only to do what he wants to do, without considering how his actions will influence others and he surroundings.

Learning to look at yourself with a bigger perspective will enable you to see things you’ve never seen before, and therefore accomplish things you’ve never been able to accomplish before.  This is an essential skill for anyone who wishes to transcend mediocrity and make a difference in the lives of those around them.

Just take a minute to consider how this one principle would improve your personal relationships. Imagine yourself looking through their eyes before you say or do anything.  Do you think that would make a difference?  Of course!  Start developing this habit today by listening to this audio session.

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Christmas Gift For Christ

Father gave us the gift of His Only Begotten Son.  Christ willingly gave His life for each of us.  We can give something back; something that will really please them.

The best gift you could give God, or man, is to make the most of yourself!

How about a promise to give more time and devotion to God this year?  What about more frequent and faithful prayer?  Or more obedience?  Wouldn’t a commitment to spend more quality time with our spouse and children be far better than anything we could buy them?  Of course.  How about overcoming a bad habit and replacing it with a wonderful one?  How about the determination to lose those extra pounds?  These, and others, are by far, some of the best gifts we can give to God and our loved ones this Christmas!  Give the best gift this Christmas… a new and improved you.  Merry Christmas!

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You Never Solve Your Problems

You have to outgrow them!

Carl Jung has been attributed with this wonderful quote, “You never solve your problems, you have to out grow them.”  I love it! You and I have to grow and grow and grow.  And as we do, the problems and challenges that once caused us so much grief will shrink into little disturbances that we can easily handle.

What an empowering thought!  You can outgrow all of your problems! It makes perfect sense.  Let me illustrate with swimming.  If you were to take a man, who cannot swim, and drop him 10 meters off shore, he would have a big problem.  But you have outgrown that problem and could swim to shore, no problem.  Well, what if we took you out 500 meters from shore?  Many of you would have a very hard time getting back to shore alive.  Can you outgrow that problem?  Of course!  I have competed in several short-distance triathlons and so I could swim in from around a mile out, but beyond that, I would have a problem.  Have others outgrown that problem?  Of course!  An IronMan triathlete could easily swim in from 2.5 miles out, and count it as a work out.  You see, it’s all about our personal development, our growth rings.  How big are your growth rings?

Orison Swett Marden wrote, “Obstacles and challenges will seem big or small to you according to whether you are big or small.”  So our obstacles are actually opportunities to see where we are in our growth, and to do something about it!

A great and painful lesson

I vividly remember competing in a tough (for me) triathlon in Costa Rica.  I was not aware that the triathlon was going to take place until about a week before the race.  I had slacked in my training because, as I wrongly assumed, I didn’t have anything to train for.  Well, when the time to perform has arrived, the time to prepare has passed! And I was not prepared.  That triathlon kicked my backside!  I had not outgrown it through discipline, preparation and training.  And so it was bigger than me.  That morning before the race, one of the competitors, who is an IronMan racer, rode his bike about 50 miles BEFORE the race “for a warm up.”  He was definitely bigger than that race.

How do we get bigger?

So we ask ourselves, “How can we increase our growth?”  The answer:  the Law of the Harvest.  You and I will reap what we sow, and in exact proportion as well.

Life is like a garden.  We have to get good nutrients, not only in the body, but in the mind and spirit as well.  We’ve got to pull weeds, mix in fertilizer and get plenty of sun shine….light and truth!  How can we do all this?

The Daily Routine

Failure is fertilizer.  Try new things.  Get out of your comfort zone.  Discomfort is one of the best indications of growth.  Do not stay and vegetate in your little corner of the earth.  Get Out And Live!  And learn and grow from your mistakes and failures.

Input Determines Output.  Feed your mind and spirit with great content.  Study from the scriptures and the best books everyday.  Miss a meal, but don’t miss your daily dose of great truths.  Study the lives of great men and women who have really developed themselves, and model the manner in which they outgrew their challenges.

Pull the weeds.  Get rid of the negative people and input in your life.  Throw away your television and your video games.  Do whatever it takes to keep the porn, the violence and the filth out of your home and out of your life!

We’ve also got to pull the toxic weeds of tobacco, alcohol, drugs and obesity.  They are destroying so many lives everyday.

Exercise and eat well everyday.  Be consistent and vigorous and you will quickly get the results you are longing for.  Discipline yourself to do it.  Don’t let up.  No excuses or “special occasions.”

And most importantly, invite the Light into your life by drawing closer to God.  Seek His help and guidance, spend time with Him and DO what He asks.

If you will work on these habits everyday, I promise that you will experience tremendous growth in your life that will bring you those wonderful rewards that have been reserved for those who are willing to pay the price.  Then, you will really begin to be bigger than your problems.

Please share with us a time when this principle has been true in your life.

The Lion and the Mouse

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “In my walks, every man I meet is my superior in some way, and in that I learn from him.”  It is so easy to get caught in the habitual trap of measuring others against yourself, your skills, your knowledge, and even your possessions.  Honestly, this is a lowly way to live.  You are better than that!  You and I can see that we have something to learn from every man, woman and child, no matter where they come from.  Discipline yourself to think well of everyone and learn from them.  Do not allow yourself to puffed up in pride and to set yourself above others.  Setting yourself up, actually lowers your position.

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Please share the valuable lessons you have learned from those who seemed “small.”

Life Is Easier When You Are Better

It’s a rather simple formula: the bigger you become, the smaller your problems will be.  Life is often hard, simply because we are too soft.  The more we discipline ourselves to grow and improve, the more capable and qualified we will be to handle life’s challenges and obstacles.  But if we are too easy on ourselves, then life will be hard on us.

CAVI is an acronym I love to use.  It stands for Consistent And Vigorous Improvement.  When we live by CAVI principles and habits everyday, life is so much more enjoyable, fulfilling and exciting.  Reach Upward!

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Please share examples of how this has been true for you.

The Horse and the Groom

We all live according to priorities.  How do you know?  A priority is that thing to which you give your time and attention.  So take a good, honest look at what you are thinking and doing most of the time, and you will see what your priorities are…not what you say they are, but what they really are.  With that sobering perspective, most of us could use a reordering of our priorities.  This audio session will be very helpful.

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Share your highest priorities. How do you keep them there?

The Fox and the Crow

Don’t you just hate it when vanity ruins a good thing?  And don’t you love being around people who seem to have no vanity at all?  Those meek and humble people, all over the world, inspire me and I love them.

Vanity can canker your soul and ruin your life.  The history books are full of countless tragic stories where vanity was at fault.  There are several things we can do keep a proper perspective.

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What else can we do to apply this principle?

The Mice in Council

A great idea has value when it is acted upon.  Action often requires risk.  Will you do it anyways?  I will!  We must discipline ourselves to think and act, think and act.  Then, and only then, will we get the great rewards in life.  Do you want to be closer to God, wiser, healthier, kinder, wealthier, and more influential?  Then you and I must consistently capture great ideas and act on them!  Even if they’re risky.  Billionaire Jon Huntsman said, “Leadership is about taking risks.  If your life is free of failure, you’re not much of a leader.  Take no risks, and you risk more than ever.  Leaders are called on to enter arenas where success isn’t covered by a warranty, where public failure is a real possibility.”

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Share your failures that have led to triumphs.  We all need inspiration to keep failing forward!

Remember What You’re After

Have you ever lost focus on what you really want?  Of course, we all do sometimes.  It is so easy to get distracted by less important objectives, or just to forget what we are truly going after.

It is so critical to remember what we are trying to achieve.  Why do you go to school?  Why do you go to work, to church or anywhere?  We have got to remember why we decided to do something, and work toward that goal.

Keep yours eyes, your mind and your actions on target.  Whether it is at home with family, in the gym, in the library, or on vacation, remember what you are after and let that drive you to excellence.

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